How to
Find a Divorce Lawyer
Some basic tips on finding the
right family lawyer to suit your needs.
by Jeffrey CottrillOne of the most important decisions youll make in your divorce is choosing
your divorce lawyer the person wholl represent your interests throughout the
case. So the process of finding the right lawyer is not one to take lightly. Your divorce
lawyer needs not only ample experience and skills in family law, but also expertise in the
specific areas in which you need assistance, as well as compassion and personal
compatibility with you.
Ideally, you should interview several divorce lawyers
before making a final decision. Here are ways to get started:
Ask for recommendations from friends and
family members who have divorced, or from other professionals you know, such as
therapists, financial advisors, or other types of lawyers.
Contact professional organizations that
offer referrals to highly reputed divorce lawyers, such as The American Academy of
Matrimonial Lawyers or the Law Society of Upper Canada.
Research the Martindale-Hubbell
guide, which ranks lawyers across the United States by success and skills.
Explore Internet resources such as
DivorceMagazine.com. We provide state-by-state listings of family lawyers, with a
substantial profile for each divorce lawyer detailing their experience and personal
approach. Some lawyers offer answers to frequently asked divorce questions in video
format, to give you a sense of what it may be like to work with them. If you click on the
links above, you will see listings of lawyers in the respective cities, with links to
their profiles.
You could also check the Yellow Pages, although the number
of choices there might be too broad and most do not offer in-depth information about the
lawyer. Any divorce lawyer can get a listing there, regardless of expertise or experience.
Most divorce lawyers offer an initial consultation for free
or a low fee. This is your opportunity to find out if the lawyer is the right fit for your
case. Here are the main issues you should be asking about:
Does this divorce lawyer have a lot of
experience?
Is he or she being frank with you? Its
preferable to have an advocate whos willing to tell you the straight truth about
what the likely outcomes will be, than one who makes unrealistic promises and tells you
only what you want to hear.
Is he or she equally adept at negotiation
and litigation? Its usually a good idea to find somebody who can settle your divorce
amicably if possible, but who also is prepared to vigorously fight for your rights in
court if needed.
Does this divorce lawyer practice mediation
and/or collaborative law? These are useful, non-adversarial alternatives to court that may
lower the financial and emotional costs of your divorce.
If you and your spouse have children, does
this divorce lawyer have experience and/or special expertise in childrens issues?
If you and your spouse have a lot of assets
to divide, does this divorce lawyer have training in complex financial and property
issues? If not, does he or she have access to qualified financial professionals who could
help?
Do you get along personally with this
lawyer? Are you comfortable telling him or her everything about your marriage? Does he or
she seem compassionate and empathetic?
Can you afford the legal fees? How does the
divorce lawyers billing method work?
These are just some of the things you need to know.
Dont be hasty about hiring a divorce lawyer; take time to ensure that youll
get the best divorce outcome possible.
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